Could you be happy if all you had were friends, freedom and an analysed life?

Posted on March 20th, 2010 by admin

According to the philosopher Epicurus, that’s all that anyone needs to be happy. Would you agree?

…no, Epicurus doesn’t live in the 21st century, "show me the money" and i’ll be happier…

14 Responses

  1. Wesley Says:

    Yes and No. Yes it may to general happiness. Even so, Psychologically, We have up’s and down’s. Generally speaking after a good deal of Epicurian delight we sink into a sadder state of being. The two emotions generally balance out creating level emtional state. Ergo, we might be generally happy if we follow Epiurus, but not always so. Poor Epicrus died centuries befoe modern psychology but leaves behind instructions for generalized sense of wellbeing
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    Me!!!

  2. pɹɐʍpǝ Says:

    Could you be happy? Yes.
    Would you be happy? You tell me.

    I’d say the biggest problem with this in today’s society is comparison, especially with teens. I think the real question is, would you let yourself be free.

    We seem to take what we have for granted, so the things that you’ve mentioned some people don’t even know they have, or they don’t realize how important those things are and strive for more.

    I’d be happy in general when looking at the big picture, my life. All emotions are built from supporting factors and have a foundation for why they are the way they are. When speaking about being happy in general, the things that you’ve mentioned are all that should truly matter to have that foundation. But it’s the other part of life that bring out the other emtions; How the friendships are going, and How others lives effect my life when our paths cross.

    I like to give aid to those less forunate than I am, and seeing their lives makes me sad sometimes.

    I guess in the end you have to define what type of happy you want.
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  3. Roxyfoxy Says:

    It is relative to person.
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  4. markymark Says:

    oh yes analysing my own life makes me aware of everything in and around my life.
    so applying this changes my way of thinking. meaning every thing in and around my life
    is changing like friends money health. once we reconditioned are minds we can be happy with
    friends freedom and an analysed life.
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  5. Deja Vu! Says:

    …no, Epicurus doesn’t live in the 21st century, "show me the money" and i’ll be happier…
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  6. bookwormaster Says:

    Well… one can be happy without them… and it doesn’t make much of a distinction… in term of happiness…

    Cheers!!!
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  7. Private <}:-}) Says:

    No. We all need love. ♥
    There is no "I" in the word love,
    but there is in Epicurus. <}:-{(
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  8. Spiritualseeker Says:

    We are very choosy about friends, and that is what makes others (the rest of non-friends), less friends, neutral-friends/enemies, less enemies, more enemies and bitter enemies. Once we get rid of friends, there is no ‘enemy’ also, and all would be ‘close’ bonds (almost a part of ourselves). This attitude gives better freedom, and obviates the need even to ‘analyse’ the life.
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  9. d_r_siva Says:

    Happiness is generic, and is applied to almost every
    kind of enjoyment except that of the animal appetites.
    It ia a state of well-being characterized by emotions
    ranging from contentment to intense joy. These include:
    bliss, joy, joyous, carefree, jubilant, exultant,
    cheerful, playful, amused, fun, glad, gay, gleeful,
    jolly, jovial, delighted, euphoric, ecstatic, thrilled,
    elated, enraptured, comfortable, harmonious, and
    triumphant. Societies, religions, and individuals have
    various views on the nature of happiness and how to
    pursue it.

    Only saint-like persons, who feel that they are no
    longer interested in the external world, think that
    happiness is within. For many persons, nothing can make
    them happy. Our minds are as different as our finger
    prints – no two are alike. Listening to loud music
    makes one happy and makes another unhappy. Hence, there
    can be no single definition for happiness. It is
    probably impossible to objectively define happiness as
    humans know and understand it, as internal experiences
    are subjective by nature. Because of this, explaining
    happiness as experienced by one individual is as
    pointless as trying to define the color green such that
    a completely color blind person could understand the
    experience of seeing green.

    As a state and a subject, it has been pursued and
    commented on extensively throughout world history.

    "Call no man happy till he is dead." – Aeschylus

    "True happiness arises, in the first place, from the
    enjoyment of one’s self, and in the next, from the
    friendship and conversation of a few select
    companions." – Joseph Addison

    Happiness is often associated with the presence of
    favourable circumstances such as a supportive family
    life, a loving marriage, and economic stability. Kali
    Yuga, the age of darkness, is the time when these
    favourables are difficult to find.

    Unfavorable circumstances – such as abusive
    relationships, accidents, loss of employment, and
    conflicts – diminish the amount of happiness a person
    experiences. In all nations, factors such as hunger,
    disease, crime, corruption, and warfare can decrease
    happiness. However, according to several ancient and
    modern thinkers, happiness is influenced by the
    attitude and perspective taken on such circumstances.

    From the observation that fish must become happy by
    swimming, and birds must become happy by flying.
    Aristotle points to the unique abilities of man as the
    route to happiness. Of all the animals only man can sit
    and contemplate reality. Of all the animals only man
    can develop social relations to the political level.
    Thus the contemplative life of a monk or a professor, or
    the political life of a military commander or
    a politician will be the happiest according to their own
    "psyche".

    Our minds are as different as our finger prints – no two
    are alike.

    The following is the self-reported positive affect
    (i.e. positive emotion) during the day by 909 employed
    women in USA:

    Activities and their positive effect index:

    Intimate relations 5.10
    Socializing 4.59
    Relaxing 4.42
    Pray/Worship/Meditate 4.35
    Eating 4.34
    Exercising 4.31
    Watching TV 4.19
    Shopping 3.95
    Preparing food 3.93
    On the phone 3.92
    Napping 3.87
    Taking care of
    my children 3.86
    Computer/Email/
    Internet 3.81
    Housework 3.73
    Working 3.62
    Commuting 3.45

    Interaction with partners:

    w/ friends 4.36
    w/ relatives 4.17
    w/ spouse/Significant
    other 4.11
    w/ children 4.04
    w/ clients/customers 3.79
    w/ co-workers 3.76
    w/ boss 3.52
    alone 3.41

    Happiness is not entirely psychological in
    nature – it has got a biological basis too. The
    neurotransmitter dopamine is involved in desire and
    seems often related to pleasure. Pleasure can be
    induced artificially with drugs. Use of drugs is not
    some thing new, it has been used by many including
    Sanyasis since millenia.

    Our minds are as different as our finger prints
    - no two are identical.

    http://www.answers.com/Phenomenology
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  10. Misuse Of Muse Use Says:

    Probably promoting a self image…

    Happiness is somewhat different for each person, but we all require the necessities of life (food, water, shelter, clothing). With the necessities anyone has the ability to be happy, but certainly not as happy as they can be. The same principle applies here with Epicurus. Those things can make most people happy, but not as happy as they can be. Happiness has objective and subjective value; where the two meet will be as close to a generalized happiness I can think of at the moment.
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  11. I try Says:

    I have all of those, but there is one thing missing and it’s a thing that can’t be earned it simply falls on good luck….love
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  12. flamesof.wrath Says:

    I think that you need good food too. But yea that about covers it.
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  13. The Truth Says:

    In general, no. In his time it would probably be true enough but these days material goods are too important for most people to be happy without them. I myself would not be happy, but perfectly content with these conditions.
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  14. Sideburns 1978 Says:

    I think I would be content – which to me is better then being happy as that will can never really be permanent.
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